Solo Valentine’s Day Ideas: 21 Interesting Ways to Celebrate You

February rolls in, and suddenly, the whole world is covered in red roses, heart-shaped everything, and romantic songs are playing on repeat everywhere! Single? Happily taken? Or maybe only here for the half-off chocolate on February 15th? Well, whichever category you’re in, there’s no escaping the love-filled atmosphere. However, these solo Valentine’s Day ideas will make you enjoy the day even if you are single.

I’ll admit, for those of us flying solo at this time of the month, it can sometimes feel like a constant reminder that you don’t have someone special. I mean, how can you not notice all the lovebirds flooding the streets and social media? 

But guess what? Being single and celebrating Valentine’s Day solo can literally be a power move! You really don’t need a plus one to enjoy it. You can decide to flip the whole script. Instead of rolling your eyes at all the “My Forever Valentine” or moping around with a sad rom-com, you can celebrate YOU. 

YOU are the most important love story of your life. Trust me, falling in love and enjoying your company, Valentine or not, is the best thing you can do for yourself. And these 21 solo Valentine’s Day ideas are some of the most fun and meaningful ways to enjoy the day solo.

21 Solo Valentine’s Day Ideas

1. DIY Spa Day 

With this option, you don’t even need an appointment. Just light some candles, play some nice soft music, and soak in a warm bubble bath. Let the world wait for once! 

If you’re up for something extra fancy for your spa day, you can go ahead and book a massage and let someone take all that stress away.

2. Buy Yourself Flowers & Chocolate 

Who needs a valentine when you have YOU? Darling, strut into that flower shop full of main character energy and get yourself the most beautiful and dramatic bouquet they’ve got. 

Get yourself chocolate and make the day special. If possible, opt for dark chocolate. It is fantastic for keeping your hormones balanced.  

Love is definitely in the air and you deserve some from You to You.

3. Have a Staycation 

You were so ready for a solo vacation this Valentine’s, but so many things are stopping you. Well, you don’t need to cancel it altogether. Just book a room in a luxurious hotel room, order some room service, and wrap yourself in the fluffiest robe. 

Can’t afford the hotel room? You can also decide to transform your space into a relaxation haven. There are no limits here. 

4. Go on a Solo Adventure

Valentine’s Day gives you the perfect excuse to finally go to that new cafe or museum you’ve been dying to visit. Be a tourist in your city for once and take yourself on an adventure. Take a scenic walk to wherever, and simply enjoy your own company and discover hidden gems.

5. Throw a “Love Yourself” Party! 

As single, hot, amazing people, we definitely need our very own Singles-Only Party. This is the best way to celebrate yourself with amazing friends who are just like you and who love you. Celebrating love doesn’t have to focus on romantic love. So cook some dinner, pop some bubbly, and toast to your awesomeness. 

6. Go to the Movies Alone

Did you know that going to the movies alone is actually way better than going with someone? You get to choose whatever you want to watch. You get to cry over the mushy scenes without feeling self-conscious. 

Buy that ticket to a new film you’ve been dying to watch, get yourself some popcorn and candy, and you have a date!

7. Bake Something Sweet

The best thing about spending Valentine’s enjoying your company is that you don’t have to share anything! Choose a mouthwatering recipe and make some delicious dessert, heart-shaped cookies, cupcakes, or even a whole chocolate layer cake. 

No need to worry about having too much; you deserve at least one cheat day. And holistic nutrition encourages us to appreciate all aspects of food, including this Valentine’s cheat day. 

8. Try a New Restaurant – Dress up and take yourself on a date!

Listen, you are way too amazing to be sitting around waiting for a dinner invite. So put on your most banging outfit, and take yourself to explore a new restaurant. 

You get to order whatever you like. And you don’t need to try to have a conversation. This is a personal favorite. I distaste small talk. Just sit and enjoy your company and your food. 

9. Buy a Piece of Jewelry

Diamonds are definitely a girl’s best friend. Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to get yourself a little gem that should be a daily reminder that you’re perfectly imperfect. A little sparkle sparkle never hurt!

10. Write a Love Letter to Yourself

I know every one of us has received our own share of sweet nothings from other people. But have you ever sat down and proclaimed your love to yourself? You do know you’re the love of your life, right? And that it is a total shame you have never written a love letter to yourself?

Grab a pen, light up a scented candle, and write yourself the most beautiful love letter of all time. Take time to read it anytime you start feeling blue or when you need to boost your happiness hormones. 

11. Have a Photoshoot – Dress up, pose, and capture your beauty. 

I know, I know, you’re modest, simple, and lowkey, but trust me, every girl needs at least one entire photoshoot dedicated to her fabulousness. 

Wear a killer outfit, find the best lighting, and serve face like you’re gracing the cover of Vogue. 

If you are looking for fancy? Book a whole studio shoot and bring your A-game. 

12. Binge a Series You’ve Been Meaning to Watch – No interruptions, no sharing the remote!

Order your favorite pizza from your favorite place, shake up a cosmopolitan, and get ready to binge-watch any series you want. Don’t have anything in mind? Go with “Sex and the City”. This show knows how to celebrate single women. 

13. Have a Candlelit Bath with Champagne 

On Valentine’s Day, all we want are ultimate self-care vibes. 

Light your candles, pour your favorite glass of wine, and sink into that warm, scented bath. You definitely can turn your bathroom into the perfect luxury spa retreat. 

We all need and, most importantly, deserve the break, the peace, the simplicity, and the elegance. The moment is all yours.

14. Go on a Sunrise or Sunset Hike

I know how busy we all get. Juggling work, family, friends, and just everything else life throws at us. Some fresh air wouldn’t hurt, right? 

So put on your comfiest outfit and head out to enjoy a romantic sunset or a surreal sunrise. 

In fact, enjoying a sunrise or sunset is one of the simplest ways to boost your happiness hormones this Valentine’s. 

15. Have a Chocolate & Wine Tasting

If couples can enjoy wine tastings, so can we! And to make everything even better for your solo Valentine’s Day, don’t be afraid to add an assortment of chocolates to pair them off with all the wine. 

It’s just meant to be swirl, sniff, sip, and savor from here on out, sweetheart. Having just you and your sweet tooth can actually be the best way to relax this Valentine’s.  Next stop? Flavor town. 

16. Go on a Bookstore Date

Want to immerse yourself in a completely different world? Do you want to forget about all the lovebird couples flooding the streets? Want to experience unstoppable love, pain, joy, and everything in between? Well, say less cause this right here is it. 

And this might be the best way to celebrate Valentine’s. But you guys know I am biased. I love reading. 

Wonder through the aisles of a bookstore nearby, pick something spicy or anything that sparks your interest, and get ready to get wonderfully lost. If you’d rather go with self-help books, here are a few options.

17. Get a Makeover

With your new attitude towards self-care and self-love, you definitely need something bolder to match your new main character’s energy. New hair color? Go for it. Red lipstick? Rock it. That wild outfit you’ve been too nervous to wear? It’s now time! Your glow-up should be unstoppable. It is time to take on your inner-critic and become the best version of yourself.  

18. Make Yourself a Fancy Dinner

I mean, who really needs a Michelin-starred chef when you’re a literal goddess in the kitchen? That’s right, make yourself the most fancy dinner ever, set the table with beautiful candles, and dine like the royalty you are. 

Fabulous meal, fabulous girl, fabulous setting, what could make all this better? Oh, right, fantastic music! 

19. Try an Exciting Hobby, dance like no one’s watching!

Why sit around and wait for something exciting to happen when you could go and MAKE something exciting happen? Go outside and try something new: pottery, dance class, salsa, pole fitness, hip-hop, or even archery. 

Channel your inner Katniss!

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20. Book a Paint-and-Sip Class – Wine + painting = the perfect solo artsy night!

If there are two things that we can all agree on, it is that one, wine makes everything better, and two, art is therapy. So, how amazing would it be to combine these two things that feed our souls? 

Don’t be shy; grab a glass, pick a paintbrush, and let your inner Picasso shine. 

21. Do a Self-Love Meditation or Yoga Class

The most important thing on Valentine’s Day should be to feel your most powerful and be grateful to YOU. 

The perfect way to do just this is with some self-love meditation or yoga. Sit back, close your eyes, and remind yourself that you’re the it girl. Breathe in, and breathe out all lingering doubts. 

Final Thoughts

So, do you still think Valentine’s Day is just for couples? Will these solo Valentine’s Day ideas make your day? Did I convince you that you can still enjoy the day riding solo? You can! We all fuss over romantic love when true love begins with self.  So, get ready to thrive, glow, and live your best life this Valentine’s, celebrating the most important person in the universe. YOU. 

Valentine’s Day is the best day to start enjoying yourself loudly, proudly, and most importantly, unapologetically! These 21 solo Valentine’s Day ideas are how you start doing that. Remember, keep showing yourself love even after Valentines.